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itsonlyvivian:

So I’m currently watching Hello Baby, and I wanted to comment on how cute Dayoung is <3 <3. I’m at the part where they’re trying to buy toys for her and she keeps refusing them. I just wanted to clarify, she’s not purposely being cold to the MBLAQ Daddies. I’m Vietnamese, and Dayoung really reminds me of my younger self.

She’s really not trying to give them a hard time, it’s actually the opposite. It’s more vietnamese mentality that we should always be respectful, and I guess her attitude is kinda hard for the MBLAQ daddies to understand, since Leo and Lauren are so outgoing. By rejecting the toys Dayoung is being respectful, I think she feels as if she is burdening the MBLAQ daddies if she makes them buy her toys. For her, it’s really hard to accept things from others when it’s offered, even if she wants  it, and despite the intentions of MBLAQ, I feel they need to try and understand her better. 

Also, for vietnamese children, it is disrespectful to be loud and noisy around elders, we can’t talk back, and we don’t say we want things when we do. Don’t you see how happy she is around Lauren? When it’s just those two, her smile, her face just lights up. It’s hard for vietnamese children to express their feelings around older people. The vietnamese culture is pretty strict. So it’s going to be a lot harder for her to open up. Dayoung is a really good child, in a Vietnamese family she would be praised for her good natured personality. 

this, really, she’s matured and well taught, i love her.